Start with one person you love.
Remember their day before it arrives.
Set up one person once. Save what matters about them, add the date to your calendar, and get a thoughtful note back before their day. Choose approval first, or Set & Forget with a heads-up.
1. You choose one person.
2. Add the day to your calendar.
3. Approve, skip, or let it wait.
Free to set up. $19/year if you want handled reminders for up to 10 people. Works on the web today.
Handled reminder
Mom's birthday is Tuesday.
Tue, Aug 11 · 7 days before
Suggested note
Mom, I saw peonies today and thought of you. I hope your birthday feels full of little things you love.
It comes to you first. Nothing sends unless you say yes.
I'll send it opens the note for you to send from your own phone or email.
Edit first lets you make it sound more like you.
Skip means nothing goes out.
Care calendar
- Aug 11
Mom · Birthday
- Sep 3
Olivia · First day
- Anytime
Just-because note
How it works
Choose someone. Save the little things. Let us carry the remembering.
Think of them once. Before their day, the details come back with a note you can make your own.
Choose the person you keep meaning to remember more gently.
Peonies, oat milk, Nobu, hard weeks, tiny preferences, old jokes.
Birthdays, interviews, moving days, anniversaries, first days, hard days.
A small note comes back to you first, ready to keep, edit, or send.
The little things
The details are the care.
Peoniesbecause she never buys herself the flowers she actually likes.
The hard weekbecause a Tuesday text can matter more than a birthday post.
Oat milk, no vanillabecause being known is often embarrassingly specific.
The interviewbecause big days feel less lonely when someone remembers.
From start to finish
One quiet loop: remember, prepare, approve.
Set up one person for free. If you want us to carry the remembering, activate the Founding Care Plan. It works on the web today.
Set up free
No credit card to set someone up. Begin with one person, preview the note, and add the moment to your calendar.
Add what matters
Birthday, anniversary, favorite coffee, hard weeks, big interviews, and anything else worth remembering.
Prepare the note
You leave with words you can use, change, or rewrite when their day gets close.
Get the nudge
Founding members get reminders handled for up to 10 people, with the note ready for review and a simple post-checkout setup.
Choose what happens
Send it yourself, edit first, skip it, pause the person, or add a small gift later. Nothing goes to them without your yes.
What each person gets
You get the prepared moment. They get the care from you.
On Their Day is the quiet helper behind the scenes. It does not replace you, speak for you without permission, or surprise anyone.
A nudge before the day.
- The person and date surfaced in time.
- The little details you saved about them.
- A warm draft you can send, edit, snooze, skip, or pause.
- Optional e-card or gift ideas later, only when they make sense.
Something that feels like you remembered.
- A text, email, card, e-card, or gift only if you choose it.
- Words that sound personal because they use what you saved.
- No automated message from On Their Day.
- Nothing at all if you skip, pause, or archive the moment.
On Their Day prepares it
You approve it
They feel remembered by you
You stay in control
Let us carry it, without losing control.
On Their Day is built for real life. People move, relationships change, and some days deserve extra care. The system helps you remember without taking over.
We bring the note to you.
The safest default. Review it, edit it, send it yourself, or skip it.
We give you time to change it.
For trusted moments, you get a heads-up before the day with edit, skip, and pause options.
Pause someone anytime.
Breakups, loss, distance, complicated seasons. Pause or archive without explaining.
The experience
It should feel like care, not admin.
The first flow stays small: who they are, what to remember about them, which moments matter, and the nudge you will get.
Who are you thinking about?
Start with one person you do not want to let slip through the cracks.
Their name
What should we remember?
Peonies, oat milk, favorite restaurants, hard weeks, and inside jokes.
- Food & drinks
- Books & shows
- Places
- Things to know
Before the moment, you get this.
The reminder comes to you first.
Mom's birthday is Tuesday.
Tue, Aug 11 · 7 days before
Draft ready: “Mom, I saw peonies today and thought of you.”
I'll send it
Edit first
Skip
Why it matters
Great relationships are not built on perfect memory. They are built on showing up.
Love remembers details.
Life moments deserve a place.
Special days deserve a place.
Ordinary Tuesdays count too.
You approve before anything goes to them.
Pricing
Free setup. $19/year for handled reminders.
Try the first-person setup free. The founding plan is an annual subscription that covers handled reminders for up to 10 people, unlimited special days, life moments, and ordinary-day nudges. Handled means the reminder comes to you first with a thoughtful note started. You decide: send it yourself, edit first, skip it, pause the reminder, or save it for later.
Support
Help is a human email away.
Questions, bugs, payment concerns, or feedback can be sent to hello@ontheirday.com. A real person will read it.
FAQ
Simple on purpose.
What is On Their Day?
A quiet reminder and note-prep app that helps you remember important people, keep their special days and life moments close, and have something thoughtful ready when the time comes.
Does it send messages automatically?
The default is Approval First: the app prepares the nudge for you, and you decide what happens. Set & Forget is for trusted people and moments only: you get a heads-up before the day with time to edit, skip, or pause. Gifts and recipient sends are never purchased or sent without your explicit approval.
What if life changes?
You can skip a reminder, pause a person, or archive someone. Sensitive moments stay approval-first, because real life is allowed to change.
Will On Their Day text me?
Founding members get an approval-first heads-up before important moments. At launch, we will confirm the best contact method after checkout. The promise is the same: the nudge comes to you first, and nothing goes to anyone else without your yes.
Is it free?
It is free to set up one person and see the note/reminder preview. The Founding Care Plan is $19/year for handled reminders up to 10 people, unlimited special days, life moments, and just-because nudges.
Can I cancel?
Yes. Founding members can cancel future renewal by emailing hello@ontheirday.com. If the plan is not useful in the first 14 days, email us and we will make it right.
What am I paying for?
The paid plan is for the outcome: On Their Day helps make sure the reminder comes back before the day, with a thoughtful note ready for approval.
Are e-gift cards purchased automatically?
No. Gift cards are only a planning detail right now. If partner suggestions are added later, they should be optional, clearly labeled, and never purchased without approval.
How do I get support?
Email hello@ontheirday.com with questions, bug reports, payment concerns, or feedback.
Why start on the web?
So you can try it now, and so the first experience can get clearer and warmer before it becomes a native app.
Where is my information stored?
Today, your information is saved in this browser on this device. Please don't add anything you would not want stored locally.
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